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Matrimony (Weddings)

Thank you for your interest in celebrating your wedding at Holy Family Cathedral. The information on these pages will help you begin your planning.

All weddings are on Saturdays outside the season of Lent. Weddings take place at 11:00 a.m., 2:00 p.m., and 7:00 p.m. Rehearsals are on Friday evening.

Please make an appointment with Janet Gardner in the Parish Office, 918-582-6247. She will explain the process of securing a date for your wedding and signing a contract.

Music: If you have already met with Janet Gardner and chosen a date for your wedding, you should begin choosing music for your wedding. Listen to Ernest Neal, the Cathedral Organist and Music Director, playing several popular selections.

Vocalists: The Vocalists section gives contact information for the main vocalists heard at the Cathedral. It also provides information if you want the Cathedral Choir or the Motet Choir to sing at your wedding.

Guidelines: You may wish to read our booklet, Celebrating Christian Marriage, the guidelines for preparation in the Roman Catholic Diocese of Tulsa.

Paperwork: Paperwork is available at the Parish Office when you schedule your wedding. If you plan on having a reception in either the Auditorium or the Halpine Room in the Cathedral’s basement, you can use the “Event Planners” to decide how you wish to arrange tables and chairs.

Event Planner: Auditorium: If your reception is in the Heiring Auditorium, use this planner to decide where you want your tables and chairs.
Event Planner: Halpine Room: If your reception is in the Halpine Room, use this planner to decide where you want your tables and chairs.

6 Responses to "Matrimony (Weddings)"

  1. Brittney Justice says:

    My fiancĂ© and I have both been previously married. Neither one was in a church. Would we be able to get married in your church? I’m catholic and he is currently attending classes to be baptised into the Catholic faith.

    1. Lisa Stice says:


      I am so sorry your question got lost in the shuffle of summer schedules and vacations. To answer your question you may be able to be married in the Cathedral. I recommend meeting with one of our Priests or Deacons for pre marriage counseling, they will be able to assist you in all of this. You can call the Cathedral at 918-582-6247 and get an appointment with a Deacon or Priest who will be able to help you with your wedding prep.

  2. Lynn McNabb says:

    Is there a fee for non-parishioners to have a wedding at Holy Family? My husband and I were married there 38 years ago but no longer live in Tulsa and some family members are interested. Thank you.

    Lynn McNabb

    1. Lisa Stice says:


      Thank you for answering. We do happen to charge parishioners and non-parishioners for weddings at the Cathedral. For complete rates and information you can contact our Parish Secretary Janet at (918-582-6656). She will be able to answer all of your questions.


  3. sjwrink says:

    Hi, I was looking to get married. I just need to know who to get in contact with?

    1. Mike Malcom says:

      Congratulations, Sam! Call the Parish Office, 918-582-6247, and ask for Sheri.

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